五八三 婚姻大事（上）
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“没错，我确实对大明王朝很感兴趣——既然来到了十七世纪的中国，自然是希望能够尽量全面，深入的多了解这个时代不过呢，这就好像我们从前去，疆那些地方旅游一样：我会为当地的原始自然风貌感动，觉得没有经过现代文明污染的传统文化很有特色，但如果要当真去那种地方定居，过所谓‘纯天然无污染’不费油不费电的生活，我想恐怕没几个人能真正适应同理——明朝的宫装仕女图很好看，红楼梦中所描述的大家族生活很让人好奇，但如果当真去弄个从小读‘内训’‘女诫’长大的小脚女孩作枕边人，和一帮子整天斗鸡走马的明朝官二代攀亲戚……这还是敬谢不敏了，能够像陈涛或张申岳那样一心一意投入大明社会的人毕竟不多”
于是解席哈哈一笑：
“说了半天，原来只是叶公好龙啊”
庞雨则毫不羞愧的耸耸肩：
“这没什么不好意思的，在这方面，我想我们中间大多数人都是如此否则大伙儿也不会一心只窝在这海南岛上搞建设了，到现在连愿意上大陆去发展的都只是少数”
“这么说钱谦益这番‘好意’怕是要落空？”
“那倒未必，一百个人有一百种想法这一次看陈涛的说法，还是那边把人嫁到南方来，并不要求我们这边去北京，所以安全上没什么问题，有想法的人估计也会因此多上不少我是只要站在那个圈子外头，最多只是靠在边缘处，朝里面看看也就心满意足了，可天晓得其他人心里会怎么想”
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——正当庞雨和解席两人在这边谈论之时，同样的话题也在其他现代人口中多次议论着陈涛发回来的这封电报确实在后方激起了巨大波澜虽然团队中大多数人对此并不像陈涛本人那样达到了狂热的地步，可感兴趣的人也着实不少
通婚，联姻，作为强势的外来户，与当地本土贵胄家庭融合，说穿了也就那么一回事但偏偏人家钱阁老是文化人，说得很有艺术性：落地生根，开支散叶——恰恰是这简简单单八个字，却一下子打中了穿越众们内心最柔软的部分
是啊，做为一群在异时代漂泊的飘零人，午夜梦回的时候，谁不曾有过那种彻骨寂寞的感觉？即使他们这个组织发展的再怎么轰轰烈烈，团队中每一个人都可以说是手握重权，可白天无论怎样权势喧赫，晚上回到宿舍之后却还是孤零零一个即使可以参加些集体活动，甚至去本时代的某些娱乐场所放纵一二……可只要没有真正建立起家庭，就永远摆脱不了这种如同无根浮萍一般的孤寂感
故此，在这里建立起一个家庭，重品味到家庭的温暖，乃是团队中很多人心中的夙愿只是这心中的愿望要想成为现实，却也并非是一件简单的事情——当然，这绝不是说外部条件上有什么妨碍以他们琼海军当前在海南岛上的财势地位，除非是口味特殊专爱朝下手的，否则就是想做个欺男霸女的王老虎也做不成——他们中间若有谁想要找个好女子凑合着结婚，只要消息略略放出去，外面的媒婆绝对踏破门槛事实上就是平日里，自觉有条件合适的人家找关系上门说媒保亲的人也绝不在少数
但恰恰是因为外部环境完全无压力，反而导致内部思想总是犹豫不定团队里有些同志在这方面是比较清醒果断的，比如舒中，比如北纬：遇到个差不多的，你情我愿对集体又略有益处，那就干脆利落把婚事给确定下来；又譬如吴南海，胡凯那几个：在日常生活中认识，虽然原先并没有什么想法，可是在长期接触中慢慢产生感情，也就自然而然水到渠成，也不必考虑什么门当户对了；再或者如同小叶子那般急色的：看见对方容颜姣好，听见几句糯言软语就酥了骨头，立刻乖乖把一辈子交出去，完全不管对方身份如何……虽然现代人对出身并不介意，私下里还是难免被人笑话不过无论如何，终究也算是解决了个人问题
当然，还有如解席，李启含这样寻求内部解决的……总之八仙过海各显神通不过即使如此，迄今为止，团队中结了婚的男性仍然只是少数多的人，虽然在参加婚礼时或是日常生活中说起来都很羡慕那些已经成双成对的，轮到自己时却依然往往犹豫不决
说起来这也是人的劣根性——在现代社会中他们大都只是些普通小市民，谈到女朋友时往往没什么挑选余地，要挑也是女方挑剔他们可到了当前这个环境下，他们本身拥有最好条件，外面好姑娘随便挑，却又难免变得自矜起来——眼下整个大团体正是春风得意之时，将来前途是不可限量，那要找个什么样的佳人才算能配得上自己呢？
很多人对此并没有什么概念，所以才一直犹豫拖延着，直到这一回陈涛发回来的电报，倒是给很多人提了醒——公侯门第，世家贵女，对于那些想要在这个时代安家立业的人来说，如果比较看重家世条件的话，那么未来恐怕除了老朱家的公主郡主，就不会再有比她们合适的了
而这一点，着实让不少人动了心{<ahref="http://"target="_blank"></a>感谢各位书友的支持，您的支持就是我们最大的动力}
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