七、女史箴言
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褚太后对陆葳蕤印象极深，去年在瓦官寺就曾见过陆葳蕤，当时陆葳蕤与陈操之一道给大雄宝殿画八部天龙壁画，褚太后见陈操之俊逸、陆葳蕤娇美，实乃神仙眷侣，就有意促成这绝对姻缘，只是因为知道陆始竭力反对这门亲事，所以褚太后也不能冒犯吴郡陆氏而强行赐婚，其后废帝司马奕想纳陆葳蕤为妃，褚太后便明确反对，又得览陆葳蕤的陈情表，对陆葳蕤更增怜惜，所以此番相见，褚太后走下来拉起陆葳蕤的手，和颜悦色问陆葳蕤年岁以及一些琐事，陆葳蕤一一作答，言语温柔清和，褚太后很是欢喜，一时间把谢道韫冷落在一边——
过了一会，褚太后才记起还有一个谢道韫，端详着谢道韫的容貌，心道：“这谢氏女郎眉清目秀，也是好女子，只是身量过于长大了一些，若不是陈操之高大颀长，寻常男子还不好般配。”问道：“道韫，你之肺疾可痊愈了？”
谢道韫恭恭敬敬道：“多谢太后关怀，臣女病好得多了。”
褚太后见谢道韫秀眉斜挑、双眸狭长，瞧着有些眼熟，忽然记起去年在瓦官寺也是见过这个谢家娘子的，当时谢道韫是以梁冠儒衫的青年士子身份出现，自称上虞祝英台，还在褚太后和时为琅琊王的司马昱面前与陈操之辩难，褚太后记得她当时还出了一题——试论诗之比兴之异同，陈操之与那个祝英台皆有精彩论述，那次辩难最终不分胜负，褚太后各赐二人绢三百匹——
褚太后笑道：“祝郎君，未亡人可不是第一次见到你，去年你与陈操之在瓦官寺辩难极为精彩，据说你扬言要娶谢道韫，可有此事？”
谢道韫满脸通红，羞不可抑，但太后问话又不能不答，只得应道：“臣女荒唐，请太后训斥。”
褚太后道：“你之痴心，让人起敬，虽然一波三折而最终好事得偕。”庄容道：“陆葳蕤、谢道韫，本宫要问你们一句话——”
陆葳蕤、谢道韫二女一齐躬身道：“请太后垂问。”
褚太后问：“汝二人皆愿嫁陈操之否？”
陆葳蕤应道：“臣女愿嫁。”
谢道韫随后应道：“臣女愿嫁。”不免脸红心跳。
褚太后点头道：“男子娶二妻，古礼所无，本朝虽有贾侯先例，但也并非同时娶二妻，而且贾侯之左右夫人并不能和睦相处，甚至恶语相向，实不堪效仿，汝二人家长既要请求本宫将汝二人赐婚陈操之，汝二人同嫁陈操之之后，就应含章贞洁，靖恭自思，相夫教子，友善相处，莫致内宅争执不宁、夫君苦不堪言，从而贻笑他人。”
陆葳蕤、谢道韫皆肃然应道：“是。”
褚太后道：“既云左右夫人，那么谁为左、谁为右，这让未亡人颇难决断，这样吧，此事付于天意，本宫从关内侯张茂先《女史箴》中择一语，书于纸上，先不让汝二人见到，汝二人亦分别从《女史箴》中任择一语，若与本宫纸上的箴言在原文中相隔近者即为左夫人，远者为右夫人，如何？”
张茂先便是张华，前晋首屈一指的博学多才的大名士，他的《女史箴》是规劝宫廷妇人遵守德行的箴言，凡三百余言，与蔡邕的《女训》一样流传甚广，陆葳蕤、谢道韫都觉这个法子新鲜有趣，哪里会不答允。
褚太后便取纸笔写下《女史箴》开头第一段“爰始夫妇，以及君臣。家道以正，王猷有伦”十六个字，将笔搁在一边，含笑道：“你二人各报两句上来。”
陆葳蕤看了谢道韫一眼，谢道韫示意她先报，陆葳蕤便诵道：“妇德尚柔，含章贞洁。”这两句正上接“家道以正，王猷有伦”。
谢道韫心里想报的也正是陆葳蕤报的这两句，却又被陆葳蕤占了先，不禁暗暗摇头，看来天意如此，便诵道：“人咸知饰其容，而莫知饰其性。”这两句在《女史箴》一文中处于中段。
褚太后命女官持她方才手书的四句传示陆葳蕤和谢道韫，左右夫人名位就此决定，陆纳自是大喜，谢安也无不快。
崇德太后赐婚之事当日就传扬开来，建康士庶大为欢喜，因近一个月来先是废帝、继而是卢竦叛乱，桓大司马的三千锐甲至今还留驻建康，弄得人心惶惶，现在有了这样一件轰动全城的喜庆之事，朝野上下都觉得可以借此放松一下，对于陈操之一人娶南北门阀两位女郎为妻，虽然不合礼制，但无伤大雅，魏晋时逾越礼教之事不少，只能艳羡陈操之洪福，建康城的酒肆茶楼、里巷曲坊，真是逢人便说陈操之左右夫人之事——
新安郡主司马道福得知陈操之将双娶陆葳蕤和谢道韫，在永福省就大哭，去中斋找父皇司马昱哭诉，哭哭啼啼说当日李静姝教她对陆葳蕤揭穿谢道韫男装出仕之事，原是想激得陆葳蕤一气之下入宫的，不料阴差阳错，倒促成陆、谢二女同嫁陈操之，司马道福这下子没指望了，哭得昏天黑地——
皇帝司马昱却是皱起眉头，他不知道李静姝还曾教唆道福做过这样的事，这显然是出于桓温的授意，看来桓温不想陈操之与陆氏联姻，但桓温也不可能希望陆氏女入宫啊，此事实在费解！
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