第二十三章 、乌帽子亲
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话说靠收假子来笼络部下，这可能是胡俗，汉人中这么干的很少。象刘备收刘封为养子，那是正经将其归入一族，还可能允其继承家业的（倘若刘禅跟他几个兄弟不出生的话）。至于董卓认吕布为假子，马超跟韩遂说你不要儿子了，我当你儿子吧，等等，那几位全都或有外族血统，或久居羌胡间，故此受其影响。再后来李克用收了“十三太保”，更是彻底的胡人胡俗。
汉人注重血缘传承，注重本族本姓，干父子关系往往只是口头说说，不真改姓的，若改姓则是彻底的依附，等于丢了祖宗，换一个家族，如同赘婿一般，定然遭人鄙视。所以一旦成年自立，往往都希望复归本宗——比方说何平变成王平。
胡人则不同，对于血缘、族系啥的并不那么在乎，大族兼并小族，便往往认小族之人为子，以族姓下赐，对方不但不会有啥不满，反而还会欢欣鼓舞——这说明你把我族当成你自族来看待啦。所以跟汉人（当然是有身份的汉人，不是平头百姓）说，我收你当养子吧，对方未必乐意——“吾可父事之也，然必不更姓。”要是跟胡人这么说，以大就小，他们肯定高兴啊。
所以当日是勋说想收拓拔力微当养子，诘汾当即赞同，力微马上就要磕头——这身份从人质一变为养子，是跳级啊，从今往后。是大人肯定会把我拓拔氏当成他最亲密的部属对待啊！
只是是勋并不打算按胡俗收养子。一则身为汉官而从胡俗。怕会引来不必要的攻讦，二则他也不通胡俗，就怕无法把主动权彻底掌控在自己手中。可惜汉俗中收养子又没啥特别的规定、礼仪，顶多就是聚饮一次，通知亲朋罢了，显得不够庄重，没法给胡人留下深刻的印象。想来想去，突然被他想到日本人了。
日本中世纪大小武士集团。互相结合的重要一法，即为“寄亲寄子制”，大武士团就是“寄亲”，好比老爹、本家，小武士团就是“寄子”，好比儿子、分家，靠着这种虚拟的亲子关系，把人心聚拢在一起。从某种意义上来说，这跟是勋收服拓拔部，所希望达成的效果是一致的。
日本还有“乌帽子亲”的习俗。也就是少年在行“元服礼”也即冠礼的时候，会找一位身份较高之人为其主持。并且最后帮少年戴上代表成年的“乌帽子”。在武士团中，往往是上位武士为下位武士子弟戴乌帽子，成为其“乌帽子亲”，也即保护人，并且“赐以偏讳”。基本上等于说，双方不仅仅结为养父子关系，还同时结成了主从关系。
于是是勋便加以借鉴，只不过用汉家的冠礼取代了日本的元服礼，而且不仅仅下赐一两个字，干脆把自己的姓儿都给了力微了，还给起个汉名，定个表字。那么起啥名好呢？他想到力微的后裔是会建立北魏的（倘若历史照常发展的话），干脆，就起“魏”字罢了。
虽说将来曹家也可能建立魏朝，但避讳也从来避不到国名上，汉有许广汉、吴汉，也没见勒令他们改名啊。
冠礼、定名、取字完毕，是勋即双手搀起是魏，笑吟吟地对他说——同时也是向众人宣告——“吾今为朝廷守牧朔州，欲将州治设于美稷。高阙，汝可愿相助为父，以服匈奴乎？”
是魏似乎斜眼瞟了亲爹诘汾一眼，但便即便正色答道：“大人之敌，即魏之敌也。请大人将拓拔部众予魏，魏即统军自北，大人自南，夹击美稷，料无不胜之理！”
是勋心中暗笑，就猜到你们想趁机把部众全都白讨回去，不过嘛，我还有惊喜给你们。当下拍拍是魏的肩膀，左右望望：“吾儿所言，颇雄壮否？”众人急忙附和：“有使君这般虎父，斯有虎子也。”是勋捋须大笑，随即对是魏道：“拓拔部小弱，恐难与我夹击美稷——吾今不但归汝部属，并与良马、牛、羊各五千，一应军器、甲杖。吾儿努力，毋负为父之望也。”
诘汾、是魏喜出望外，急忙拜谢。旁边儿窦宾等人却不禁面部肌肉抽搐，心说我们拿来赎人的畜牲，谁料转头就让汉人送给拓拔部啦……诘汾真是因祸得福！窦宾见机最快，赶紧迈前一步表态：“小人亦愿臣服于汉，献子为质。”
是勋冷笑摇头：“不必了，佳儿又何须多也。”顶得窦宾面孔通红，差点儿下不来台。随即就听是勋又说：“前汝等五部攻我，今拓拔以与我结亲，汝三部不日便将赎回。其余一部……何名也？”
他这是问那倒霉战死的鲜卑大人所部，诘汾赶紧提醒：“达奚氏。”是勋点头：“吾将达奚氏之残部亦交于吾儿。”环视三位大人：“汝等当相助吾儿取之。”窦宾等人虽然心不甘、情不愿的，亦不得不躬身应诺。
谁想是勋还没完呢，随即便问他们：“汝等皆欲臣于汉么？”窦宾已经开了口，自然不好反悔，其余二人虽未开口，如今在人家地盘儿上做阶下囚，哪有反对的胆量，只得表态说：“汉甚强，吾等皆欲为臣。”是勋说那好啊，你们都各写表章，让我递去许都吧——“此后即为我儿之部属，随同征战，南取美稷，西御蒲头，东遏步度根，汝等可有异议否？”
窦宾等人闻言，莫不大吃一惊，慌忙抬头之下，但见是勋的双眼微眯，似笑非笑，正紧盯着自己呢。窦宾只好认怂：“公子亦小人的妻侄也，自当辅佐。”其余那两名大人，也不得不垂首附和……
ps：书友刘晓登场，大家鼓掌欢迎。就目前来看，除了亡友孙毓南外，也就老荆跟他可能活得比较长久了……谁叫正需要一个且领不了便当的角色，他就主动凑上来了呢？走运啊，时间卡得真真儿的好。
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