6 寻贤不遇（下）
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次日一早，荀贞起来，把程偃等人叫至身边，交代了两句，吩咐他们：“待我出城走后，尔等便留在督邮舍里，日常习射练武，无事不得外出，更不许出去惹是生非。我长则大半月，短则小半月必归。”他这次微服行县，只准备带小任和宣康两人侍从。小任管钱，兼作护卫；宣康通文墨，路上有什么见闻可以由他记载下来。
三人换了粗布麻服，各携刀剑，扮作远行的客人，荀贞、小任骑马，宣康乘车，从督邮舍的后门出去，绕过几条街，混入人流，先去了戏志才家。
荀贞早就想来拜访戏志才了，只是因种种缘由一直未得成行。虽然如此，他和戏志才有书信来往，却是知道戏家在哪儿的。只是不巧，戏志才没有在家。
他妻子出来应门答话，问过荀贞姓名后，说道：“拙夫昨夜未归，应是住了友人家里。”再问“友人”是谁时，她却说不上来了。荀贞心中了然，知她必是没说真话。戏志才好博戏，昨晚很可能是去哪儿赌钱了，只是她不肯在陌生人面前揭自家夫君的短，故而托言“住在友人家”云云。他往院里看了眼，见院中屋舍破旧，青苔覆墙，隐见屋内陈设亦甚是寒酸简陋。
他也不揭穿她的假话，只令小任取出些钱，递过去，笑道：“这些钱，请收下。”
“荀君这是何意？”
“博戏者，胜负皆有。嬴则罢了，若是输了，备给尊夫还赌债。”
戏妻怎会肯要！
荀贞笑道：“若是别人，这钱我肯定不会留，但我与尊夫相交已久，对他知之甚深。尊夫才高八斗，随心所欲，放达不羁，非是礼教中人，像他这样的人，不是世俗礼教所能约束的。这点钱，就请夫人收下罢。”戏志才当然不是“世俗礼教所能约束的”，想当日，荀贞与他第一次见面时，就亲耳听他自己说：赌输了钱被扣在垆中，还是荀彧去解救了他。
戏妻显然也是知道自己夫君性子的，听荀贞这么说了，也就不再推辞。
荀贞没时间等戏志才回来，见戏妻收下了钱，也就辞别离去，临走前说：“我有要事，需要远行，等回来了，再来造访尊夫。”出了里门，到了街上后，宣康说道：“荀君，我见你与郡功曹钟君及别的士子交往时，都是彬彬君子，对这个戏志才，你却怎么不遵礼教，贸然留钱？”
“叔业，你没读过《论语》么？”
“康年十五，束受学。最早学的就是《孝经》、《论语》。”
“《论语》乡党篇里第一句话怎么说的？”
《论语》是每个士子都要学的，宣康十五六时就能把这本书倒背如流，想都不想，即接口背诵道：“‘孔子於乡党，恂恂如也，似不能言者。其在宗庙、朝廷，便便言，唯谨尔’。”
“何意也？”
“是说夫子在本乡的地方上温和恭敬，像是不会说话的样子，但他在宗庙里、朝廷上却很善於言辞，只是说得比较谨慎。”
“下一句呢？”
“‘朝，与下大夫言，侃侃如也；与上大夫言，誾誾如也。君在，踧踖如也，与与如也’。”
“又何意也？”
“夫子上朝，在国君还没来时，同下大夫说话温和快乐，侃侃而谈；和上大夫说话正直公正，直言诤辩。国君来了，则是一副恭敬而不心中安的样子，但又仪态适中。”
“夫子为何在乡、在朝，在不同的场合，在面对不同的人时，他的言谈举止、容貌神态都不一样呢？”
“这，……。”宣康想了想，记起了当时老师的解释，答道，“乡党者，亲近私下人也，有的还是长辈，当温和恭敬。宗庙、朝堂，国家公事也，当勇敢直言。下大夫、上大夫名望德行不同，也应区分对待。君父为天，在君主的面前，应该恭敬不失礼。”
“和不同的人相交，本就应该用不同的态度。郡功曹是儒雅君子，我用君子的方法与他相交。戏君放达不羁，我虽是个俗人，但也应该勉强自己用不拘束礼节的态度与他相交。”
宣康恍然大悟，对荀贞非常佩服，说道：“今闻君言，方知夫子本意。”
荀贞一笑，心道：“其实说这么多，简单十个字就能概括：‘见人说人话，见鬼说鬼话’。”
“见人说人话，见鬼说鬼话”说来简单，做起来难，至少你得了解对方，才能有的放矢；又其次，在有的放矢时还得诚恳老实，如自肺腑。只有这样，才能像光武皇帝那样使人感叹“萧王推赤心置人腹中”，才能让对方顿起“生我者父母，知我者某某也”的知己之感，最终才能“哄”得对方“安得不投死乎”？
这套本领，荀贞其实还未练成，尚在“摸索学习”之中。他在西乡一两年，交际面积扩大，轻侠、士子、乡民、豪强、上官、下属，各色人等都接触了不少，今又被任为督邮，以后接触到的人肯定会更多，只要肯学、肯揣摩，慢慢地练习，总有大功告成、学会学成的那一天。
……
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